Ive just closed the latest survey on EliteEscorts …

Blokes, do you like to receive a massage as part of a booking?

This survey was started at around the same time debate on the matter was raging on the forum. Those within that debate who claimed girls only use massage a a time killer…can stick it up your fannies .

No - 13 %

Yes - 39 %

Sometimes - 10 %

Only if its good - 21 %

I prefer to give - 12 %

Its up to her - 4 %

In summary…girls offer massage because this is what the majority either wants, possibly wants or doesnt mind either way . And look at all the votes “Prefer to Give” got? Gotta love this business. Any ideas for the next survey?

Very best of wishes to everyone for 2010. Feels like yesterday that we were seeing in 2000 . Not sure how I’m feeling about this year but getting a tad sick of each year rolling around with my to-do list for the previous still incomplete. My 2010 resolution is Classic Mustang Convertible (or similiar). Something 60’s or 70’s. I’ve spent years debating the pro’s and con’s of travel in comfort vs style. Class wins .

I’m available in Auckland for the next week, 5th - 12th January. Outcall only this trip. I still haven’t added new service details to my website but we can consider it available henseforth. My usual Full Service will remain available until I do my website rebuild.

I just found a (well buried) word doc on my computer. Is a short diary I kept while I was living on Mangawhai between September 2004 until April 2005 when I moved to Auckland. I had completely forgotten about it. Check this out!

Friday, October 29 (2004)

I just finished reading a great book about a lady who was a prostitute in nz for many years, just telling it how it was. Prostitution interests me, always has, ive gone so far as considering it for a career at times. Have never really thought id be sexy enough (or brazen enough) to make a great success of it though, and then the ‘society’ dilemmas would always be an issue. The book certainly gives it added appeal, Id love all of the lessons it could teach me…I read up on my numerology last week and it said part of my life’s quest is to experience many different sorts of relationships, that’s me to a tee.

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This question from young [Name] who booked in for some TLC last Thursday. I am regularly asked about it but his question was different to the typical ‘general interest’.

Answer: No. In fact, with me, cumming vs squirting are two completely different reactions to different actions. Time for an explanation. My first experience of squirting was 2 years ago. A guy Id met off NZDating claimed he knew a guaranteed method of ‘releasing the flood gates’, taught by a girlfriend. I was interested of course, with ample pinches of salt. He wasnt wrong. Guy positioned himself above me so he had full use of his arm. With 2 fingers he began pounding my g-spot, literally. As I lay there thinking this was a tad silly and surely a waste of time, yes, flood gates opened! It took no more than 4 minutes. I had no warning, no sense of anything building and wouldnt have believed it had I not seen it. He continued. There seemed to be a never ending supply of liquid and with each big splash my body started to respond more, feel more and anticipate. It reminded me of giving birth…leaving out the watermelon element. When I was having my daughter the midwife told me not to push until she said. Yeah right! When my body did start pushing there was nought I could do about it. This ‘bearing down’ (a full body assault as opposed to the simple push you would do taking a pee - apologies for this getting gory) was all consuming, exhausting and completely out of my control. An eye opening night.

I was quite sure I could now figure this out myself. Alas, ’twasnt to be, and not for lack of trying! I couldnt a) replicate the degree of vigour he’d used…my arm not being in the proper position and lacking required stamina or b) find the right spot…though I didnt realise I had it wrong at the time. The odd person came along who knew a few basics and yes, I did squirt occasionally but usually more on par with an enthusiastic dribble. My body, the aching muscles from bearing down (which has remained a reaction) and significantly bruised fanny, tended to suffer greatly for little gain…or none. I put it on the back burner until a friend, one who was also interested but had no experience, stayed the night. For 5 hours Sally squirting became entire focus and we got there, another drenched bed with a totally destroyed Sally and friends arm. I was buggered for 3 days afterwards. This marathon was the trigger my body needed to kick into gear. Its like anything, we need to teach ourselves, the same way one can train their nipples to become orgasmic or body to become multi-orgasmic, both applying to men and women. From this night I quickly evolved to a) being able to achieve gushing under my own steam, easily, and b) my g-spot not even being required. Nowadays my most enjoyable, effective squirting comes from clit stimulus alone. When really firing Ive come very close to gushing by simply squeezing my muscles, no hands required. This isnt far away. Quantity and velocity also quickly increased.

So, why are cumming and squirting different for me? Building to a clitoral orgasm I suck in, squeezing my PC muscles upwards. Gushing Im pushing out. Problem. I’d always enjoyed having my g-spot massaged while receiving oral but, with said g-spot becoming hyper-reactive I wound up on a pulling-pushing roller coaster that achieved nothing. A nice clitoral orgasm in the making would be killed the instant my g-spot was touched, squirting would kick in. Ive had to ask for one or the other, not both at once, and learnt how to control the on-off switches for each in my head…this still takes some focus. Next problem being the understandable desire of lovers to produce said soaking themselves. Valiant efforts, if they arent getting it right, still see me in full throes of all-body muscle workout which I can only handle for so long. Final problem, the difference between clit stimulus used to produce gushing vs clitoral orgasm. They are different, the former being a rigorous action as opposed to the slow, gentle licking required for latter, occasionally the lines are crossed…see ‘pulling-pushing roller coaster’. The mess can also be a problem. Sometimes it just isnt appropiate and having to hold back can be a kill-joy, frustrating. Gents generously offering to “get a towel” realise quickly this is insufficient.

Despite answering No to the original question I have, on occasion, gushed when cumming. This has happened when Id already been gushing alot so my body was tuned into it and will have been caused by the ’squeezing, no hands required’ mentioned above.

What does gushing feel like? Its good fun, adds an awesome dimension to my sex life and I love the reactions to it. There is a building and release of sorts, feels nice, but pales in comparison to a normal Orgasm. There is no comparison. There is so much literature available, most of it conflicting. I only have my experiences to go by and realise everyone is different. I do hope to one day be able to help other women, and their men. Friend Anabel has put her hand up after we spoke about it, among other things, over wine last night. I do believe there is a demand .

New Zealand isnt very good at Escort Forums. Im not sure whether its because we a) arent interested b) are yet to catch up with the rest of the world. We do have them but contributions are minimal and older ones arent well run so tend to get taken over by ****.
I am wary of them having seen some shockers but at the other end a quality forum can be a good service and great entertainment for men and women alike. An example of this is Sensual Downunder in Australia, affectionately called SDU. Ive been meaning to do a plug for them for awhile after conversation with Lucy, one of the moderators:

The New Zealand guys and Aussie guys really are quite desperate for a NZ forum..

…we may put up a section on the site below all the Australian States review threads for NZ. Hopefully it will generate some more interest and get the NZ guys talking…

They want to hear from Kiwis and given the traffic between our countries Id suggest Guys and Girls here could find their forum useful as well. Earlier this year New Zealand got a new Escort Forum which looked good. Then they disappeared. Ive just discovered that they’re back up and running. Excellent. Go and say hi (and not just because Blackspot said nice things about me). Theyd be pleased to hear from you and with interest and good management, which I believe Blackspot and Nikon are, it could be great. Ive posted a note about SDU over there as well. Forums arent just for the blokes, ladies should get on board too! It can serve your business well and helps keep a healthy balance. Yes, I know reviews can be a little difficult to deal with as an Escort, the ‘piece of meat’ element and potential of reviewers to lack all respect. But, with the degree of dodgy service a punter must wade through I recognise the merits for all concerned. Without further ado: