I first encountered Tara Tainton, when I started my first amateur sex-blog in 2005. I was beginning my foray into exhibitionism on the web and at that time she was still a blogger, although a very popular and advanced one. Her appreciation of my blog was more than welcome and her refreshingly, joyful, down-to-earth approach to sex was and is a joy.

A forces daughter, this smart, feisty, part-native american, fox (She is uber-hot in a very real way!) has gone onto host her own website, reviewing sex-toys and sites, posting beautiful exhibitionist pics, journal entries about her own, admittedly nascent encounters, audio of her masturbating and much, much more. Recently she made the huge leap to amateur porn star, typically by starring in her own self-produced movies, and selling them to distributors. Her shrewd and independent spirit showing through in her self-controlled, diginified, intelligent and damn sexy approach to her gloriously, lusty exhibitionism. She is a lesson in how to accidentally become a different sort of erotic star, an altogether sexier, more sophisticated, multi-dimensional Eroticist.

Throughout this time we have maintained personal correspondence which has always been enlightening and delightful. I consider her a great friend I’ve haven’t (unfortunately!) met yet.

I’m not into advertising, but Tara is different. By supporting and promoting her, I feel like I am supporting all sex-bloggers and people who are bravely stepping out into new sexual territory; you couldn’t hope for a better companion. For all sex-bloggers and lovers of sexy writing, sexy pics and sexy people, Tara Tainton is a shining example of how to take your sexuality to different places, new levels and be yourself with dignity and have fun along the way. That is as much as any of us can hope to achieve.

Thanks Tara, Stay Sexy…
OXXXO

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Sitting here now, writing this, it is hard to imagine that just 4 to 5 years ago, I lived in ignorance of something that can be so exquisite to experience, even though I was about 40 yrs old. And just as I was ignorant back then, the possibility exists that there are others out there who are as well. Ignorant of what, you may ask? To that I would answer, Female Ejaculation. Yes, you heard me right ~ Women can Ejaculate, in a similar way that Men can!!! And most Men seem to love it

I was still married back then, and thought that my sex life was good, until the day when something started happening to me that I hadn’t experienced before. At first, I was highly embarrassed, even though it was with my husband, and I thought that there must be something wrong with me. Why, all of a sudden, was I experiencing awesome, rolling Orgasms, but leaving behind a rather large wet patch in the process? Naturally, it wasn’t the kind of thing I felt comfortable talking to my Doctor about, so I used the next best thing - the Internet. It was then that I found out that I was ‘gushing’, as it is otherwise known, and that not only was it normal, but it was also something that a lot of Women do not even know about! Hence, this Post, so that you, Dear Reader, will not remain ignorant of such an incredible, exquisite, and cell-tingling experience.

After I realised that I was normal, and that this was okay, I started to relax more and go with it when it would happen, rather than try to fight it, as I had when I didn’t know what was happening. The more I gave in to it, the more incredible the Orgasms became, and the more varied they became also. I thought I had a good sex life, and after the gushing started, I thought it was a great one!

Sadly, there are many out there who do not believe that women ejaculate, and that if something does squirt out, it is Urine. But chemical analysis has shown that:

1. While it does contain several elements found in urine (creatine and urea) the level of these elements are so low that it cannot be considered urine;

2. The fluid contains glucose and fructose - two forms of sugar!

3. The fluid contains PSA (prostate specific antigen) a chemical believed to be produced only in males. PSA is produced by the prostate gland, and until now it was believed that women did not have prostate glands.

While the chemical analysis has revealed some important information about the fluid itself, science still has more questions than answers about this amazing female process.

It remains unclear where the fluid is produced. Research is suggesting that it comes from the Skene’s glands, which are or aren’t connected to the g-spot, which is now also believed to be the female prostate.

Source

So, I think I can safely assume that I haven’t just been urinating during sex

If you haven’t had the amazing experience of ‘gushing’ personally, or you haven’t been with a woman who did so, then I encourage you to educate yourself on the subject, learn tips and techniques for achieving it, and a good place to start would be at the Squirting Truth website, as it is informative without being pornographic.

Since I first began gushing, my husband and I separated, and I now have a new man in my life. I thought I had it great with my ex, but WOW! I hadn’t realised that there was much more to come (excuse the pun).

But that, Dear Reader, is another story……….

Escort agencies typically advertise in regional publications and even telephone listings. Many maintain websites with photo galleries of the employees. An interested client contacts an agency by telephone and offers a description of what kind of escort they are looking for. The agency will then suggest an employee who might fit that client’s need.

The agency collects the client’s contact information and calls the escort. Usually, to protect the identity of the escort and ensure effective communication with the client, the agency arranges the appointment. Sometimes it may be up to the escort to contact the client directly to make arrangements for location and time of an appointment. If the agency does not supply transport to and from the client, the escort is also expected to call the agency upon arrival at the location and again upon leaving to assure his or her safe completion of the booking.

The purpose of discretion is to attempt to protect the escort agency (to some degree) from prosecution for breaking the law. If the employee is solely responsible for arranging any illegal aspects of their professional encounter the agency could try to maintain plausible deniability should an arrest be made. However in practice, the use of undercover police evidence or the use of links to reviews of the agencies escorts usually results in this failing.

Typically, an agency will charge their escorts either a flat fee for each client connection or a percentage of the prearranged rate. Agencies negotiate for as little as $100, up to a full 50 percent of an escort’s reported earnings (not counting any gratuity received). If they work independently doing either incalls or outcalls, prices can range from $200 to over $5,000 for more exclusive services. Being independant gives you the freedom of taking all the earnings for yourselves. Most transactions occur in cash, and optional tipping of escorts by clients in most major cities is customary but not compulsory. Credit card processing offered by larger scale agencies is often available for a service charge.

Independent escorts, also known as providers, have differing fees depending on many factors. For example; different seasons bring about different costs (and differing levels of demand), as do regular and semi-regular customers. Some may charge by the hour, half hour or even in 15 minute blocks. Time extensions (if offered or requested) are usually priced at the same rate as the original booking. Some escorts pay another individual to act as their personal security, thus providing a level of protection to themselves from violent or abusive clients.

An escort who works less often may be able to command a premium for his or her exclusivity. One who sees several clients each day may charge less, but earn more in the end. Independent escorts might see clients for extended meetings involving dinner or social activities, whereas escorts who work through agencies generally provide only sexual services.

Whilst the vast majority of escort agencies are sex related, there are some non-sexual escort agencies, where escorts provide companionship for business and social occasions.

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1. Your partner might help you with your career.
Sex is a way of showing love, but also it’s a physiological GAME. If we are able to be successful in love, we feel in control and more valued. Our believe in ourselves, leads to a rewarding career in becoming an independent escort.

2. Ecstasy leads to Imagination.Orgasm is like a drug: it lifts you off your feet, in those few amazing seconds; we forget to think and analyze. It triggers our imagination and creativity. We start to see the impossible and even orgasm passes, what we have experienced, the memory stays with us.

3. A passionate massage, smoothes your skin.After our passionate sexual experience, we notice a different, more attractive look in our mirrors. There are no bags under our eyes, wrinkles or acne. Sex works just like a visit to a doctor. It provides a better blood circulation, and also works your muscles.

4. Sex works as a pain killer, and improves your immune system.Having a regular sex life activates your immune system preventing you from catching colds and illnesses. During a nights activity, catching a cold falls to a minimum, due to the fact that our immune systems responds the most. Sex relaxes our muscles, stimulates and soothes our pain and headaches.

5. Foreplay improves our reflexes.Our brains work in high gear in our bedrooms. We are more sensitive to our touch, more responsive to a kiss, our whole body reacts differently. Having those capabilities outside our bedroom, we act the same: we see better, hear better, we are able to concentrate more to the detail.

6. Excitement improves your hair. Active sex life releases hormones which stabilizes the concentration of your blood cells. This rather complicated process has a positive impact on hair and nails. Hair grows better; healthier, shinny and doesn’t break that easily.

7. Sex speeds the process in having facial hair.Men, who wish to have a beard or a mustache, should have sex on a regular basis. The release of testosterone while being active, the wanted facial hair becomes more thick and even.

8. Orgasm slows the aging process.Women who have an active sex life and have often experienced orgasm, have fewer wrinkles than their friends who don’t. Doctors are certain that a healthy sex life biologically slows the aging process. Furthermore, a sexually satisfied woman physiologically feels young. Nothing improves your mental state like the thought of feeling sexually attractive.

9. Sexual encounter leads to Euphoria.People, who enjoy sex, practice it often and regularly. Their erotic life is dynamic. They plan, act, and monitor everything from start to finish. Having the need to share that with someone, they express it in an erotic way. It’s a never ending circle but effective. It’s been proven by doctors that people with a sexual satisfaction, are less likely to fall into a depression.

10. Regular sex improves our rear end muscles.If we want that women asset to trigger our interest, there is no need to go to the gym. All you need to do is regularly be active. While having sex, our butt muscles contract and relax just like any other workout in the gym.

11. More sex, less chocolate.Sweets lead to satisfaction. So does sex. If we are sexually satisfied, we don’t crave sweets.

12. Sex lowers our fears.Unless its fear of having sex. When we feel wanted, the arms of our partners make us feel safe and protected from the evil that we face every day. We also feel confident that we can beat that fear.

13. Sex lowers stress.Sex acts the same as a good massage, kisses- it makes as weak. Our body experiences a hormonal balance which results in a good relaxed mood and happiness.

14. Closeness increases our intellectuality.During sex, our brain receives the right amount of blood flow, where we receive a huge amount of oxygen. In return, it improves our sensible and logical thinking.

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I sit and wonder a lot about life and love. Recently I find myself asking (due to the forever ongoing sex saga in my life) whether it is possible to love someone deeply yet not be attracted to them physically?

While I am told by my significant other that this is not the case. That he does find me attractive I have to wonder if this is true. Another possibility for the problem. If this is the case how do I find out? How come for the first time in 4 years I am tending to disbelieve him?

I hit an all new low today and something I’m not proud of. I opened his laptop and snooped today. For the first time ever I’m checking up on him. Why for an answer I guess. I guess what I don’t understand is if everything he is telling me is the truth then why isn’t he just going for it and seeing if something happens. You see when I talk to him I get a feeling that there’s something he’s holding back. What I have no clue. Do I have any proof to have these feelings no. He has never lied to me before (well that I have found him out on). God all I keep thinking is if I am starting to snoop then maybe it is the beginning of the end?

I feel particularly miserable and detached tonight, more so than most nights. I have questions that when I search for answers I’m either searching in the wrong place or asking the wrong person.
Things of late haven’t been that great and me being a Scorpio this tends to shut me up for some time not wanting to allow anyone in or let anyone see that I might not be possibly dealing with things all that well. Need for secrecy can be isolating. The need to share can be agonizing. The internal struggle of both is frustrating.
The need for understanding eludes me and not getting my own way frustrates me. I won’t say I have always gotten my own way but it would be bloody close. If I didn’t get what I wanted the first time I would try different ways till I had what I wanted and then got bored. The Scorpio motto might be “What is hidden is more interesting than what is obvious.” In this situation I’m not getting what I want and I’m not getting any understanding as to why it is so hard.
I have been with my older man for 4 years now. In all ways our relationship is perfect except for this one problem! I read somewhere that even if the rest of the relationship is perfect and there is one problem that can’t be solved or you feel isn’t being resolved it will consume the rest of the relationship. I have never heard a truer word spoken.
Scorpios again are very passionate people and most people that have had relationships with scorpions know their sex life is very intense and very active. This is very true of most relationships I have had and I have enjoyed my sex life and all the things I have experienced to date. However I have hit a brick wall. I am experiencing just sex once every 4 months (if I’m lucky). Has the relationship always been like this? Yes it has. Has it always been a problem? Yes it has. Why is it a problem? Because I want way more. Why am I not getting way more? I don’t know. He doesn’t know. We don’t know. The more we talk about it the further away we feel from each other. The longer it keeps happening the worse I feel about myself and the situation. Why am I blogging something so personal? Because here I am nobody you know. Here you are nobody I know. It doesn’t make it any easier to share but the need to share is strong and being the person I am I have to have everyone around me believe I am in control and this perfect outward life I have is real or the basis of it is.
My self confidence is through the floor. I can’t remember the last time I felt sexy. It is pilling into other areas of my life and I am slowly but surely beginning to resent my partner for the lack of interest in sex. All the obvious questions have been asked. No attraction, Angry with me, to stressed etc etc. All to No of course not. Hence the need for some understanding. Something to hold on to. All the normal reactions to this have been played out. Him being defensive, me blaming myself, me still blaming myself, him wanting to ignore the issue, me wanting to talk about the issue. All is done and dusted and no change. No understanding. Nothing to hang on to.
I have never been an unfaithful person. But the idea has struck a cord or two in the last few months when it has all become a bit too much. Why am I still here? In my understanding and capacity to love I love him. I don’t want to leave I have invested a lot in this and so has he. How do I deal with this? Again I have no understanding therefore I have no answers. How do I go on? Until it is no longer bearable and something finally cracks. What will that be? Who knows? What was the point to this? Again who knows I just needed to blurt it out.