I first encountered Tara Tainton, when I started my first amateur sex-blog in 2005. I was beginning my foray into exhibitionism on the web and at that time she was still a blogger, although a very popular and advanced one. Her appreciation of my blog was more than welcome and her refreshingly, joyful, down-to-earth approach to sex was and is a joy.

A forces daughter, this smart, feisty, part-native american, fox (She is uber-hot in a very real way!) has gone onto host her own website, reviewing sex-toys and sites, posting beautiful exhibitionist pics, journal entries about her own, admittedly nascent encounters, audio of her masturbating and much, much more. Recently she made the huge leap to amateur porn star, typically by starring in her own self-produced movies, and selling them to distributors. Her shrewd and independent spirit showing through in her self-controlled, diginified, intelligent and damn sexy approach to her gloriously, lusty exhibitionism. She is a lesson in how to accidentally become a different sort of erotic star, an altogether sexier, more sophisticated, multi-dimensional Eroticist.

Throughout this time we have maintained personal correspondence which has always been enlightening and delightful. I consider her a great friend I’ve haven’t (unfortunately!) met yet.

I’m not into advertising, but Tara is different. By supporting and promoting her, I feel like I am supporting all sex-bloggers and people who are bravely stepping out into new sexual territory; you couldn’t hope for a better companion. For all sex-bloggers and lovers of sexy writing, sexy pics and sexy people, Tara Tainton is a shining example of how to take your sexuality to different places, new levels and be yourself with dignity and have fun along the way. That is as much as any of us can hope to achieve.

Thanks Tara, Stay Sexy…
OXXXO

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Asia

In this chapter, I’m going to leave out some obvious sex tourism countries and instead concentrate on a few business traveler destinations. A place like Thailand is a Mecca of sex activity but from what I hear, you shouldn’t need any help finding what you’re looking for there. So I’ll concentrate on some places where it’s a bit harder to find the fun providers. Hopefully this will help you in your quest for a little after work fun.

Singapore:

Singapore is one of those countries worth mentioning when it comes to finding hot women. Depending on where you’re last stopover is before Singapore, you should even be paying attention to the ladies on the airplane. Singapore apparently if pretty loose with their visas and you’ll find that the place is packed with hot young women from Thailand, the Philippines, Cambodia, China, etc. Therefore, if you’re coming from Hong Kong for example, there may be some working girls on your flight. Catch their eye and you might be able to arrange your date right there and then. Besides, the lighting on a plane or in an airport is pretty harsh. If she’s good looking, dressed down on an airplane, chances are she’ll be smoking hot dressed up and made up for an evening of drinking and dancing. Ok enough about airline romance…

The other thing to know about Singapore is that the people (read women) are aloof during the day. In other words, don’t be discouraged if you cannot make eye contact with any of the beautiful women walking down the streets during the day. Singapore is not a third world country and most of the women you see have jobs or they are well off and doing their shopping in Singapore’s ritzy designer shops. In other words, they are busy people and their time for fun is not during the daytime.

Street Action

At about dusk, if you’re walking around downtown, you will find that the atmosphere changes dramatically. Suddenly you’ve gone from “no one will look at me” to “be careful about making eye contact”. The streets have changed and the working girls are out. You will find it difficult but making eye contact, like you would in San Francisco (if you wanted a girl to know you were interested) can become an exercise in extracting yourself from an unintentional negotiation. I’ve never picked up a girl off the street in Singapore although I have had to extract myself from several conversations/negotiations.

Author’s Warning: Singapore is known for having many lady-boys. This is especially the case on the streets so unless you’re into that kind of thing, be careful. Also, don’t think you can automatically tell if a girl is (or was) actually a boy. Some are very beautiful and it takes a little closer examination to be sure. You’re best to avoid the street walkers in my humble opinion.

Hotel Bars

The real action in Singapore is in the hotel bars and karaoke bars. My first visit to Singapore was a pleasantly surprising one. I stayed in a very nice hotel in the middle of town (a top American chain hotel) and was stunned to find that the hotel bar was basically a brothel in the evening. My co-worker and I went downstairs to the bar (for a drink…really!) and were soon sitting with two very exotic, very sexy, ladies from Thailand. When I asked one of them, “What are you doing here?” she replied, “I think you know what I’m doing here.” Up until then, I thought I was doing really well with the ladies. Funny how the discussion of money changes that feeling huh? These girls usually travel groups and there’s usually one experienced girl that helps with language and negotiation stuff for the new and younger girls. In the case of my first evening in Singapore, I ended up with the newbie while my co-worker took the experienced girl up to his room. We both had great experiences and were out scouting for more experiences later that week. Of course, by the time I returned to Singapore, my hotel had cleaned up its act and the girls had moved on. If it’s a hotel bar you’re looking for, you’ll need to figure out which one is hot at the moment.

Hot to Spot a Lady-boy: If you want to avoid a “Crying Game” type scene in your hotel room, you should know how to spot a lady-boy. It’s sad but some of these lady-boys were marked for that existence at a very young age. That means that they may have had their penis removed and had hormone treatment since before puberty. Therefore, some are very hard to spot. My advice is if you suspect at all, just pass on that one and find another. There are many fish in the Singaporean sea my friend. The voice is one give away. If your girl has a froggy voice or seems to be putting on a falsetto, walk away. Hands are another sign. Petite Asian women do not have big masculine hands. Shake “her” hand and examine it. Does it look like Kina Kai’s or Jackie Chan’s? Don’t be fooled by lack of Adam’s apple or beautiful breasts. Surgery in Asia is very inexpensive by Western standards. Once again, you’re in a target rich environment…why settle? If you suspect a girl is actually a lady-boy, move on.

Orchard Towers

The place where you cannot go wrong in Singapore is the infamous Orchard Towers. Orchard Towers is well known so you shouldn’t have to know more than the name to get a cabbie to drop you there. In some business circles it’s known as “Four Floors of Whores”. It’s literally a four story building with (at any given time) between 6 and 12 bar/nightclubs. Apart from waitresses, just about every girl you see inside any of these bars is available for sex. Let me warn you now. It can be a bit high pressure and many of the girls would like nothing more than to entice you to a table so that they can stake claim to you for the night. My advice is to keep moving, keep eye contact to a minimum, and don’t get suckered into sitting down and buying a drink for someone until you’re ready. There’s no cover charge for men at these bars. The women pay for the privilege of being inside so feel free to stroll in, make a couple of loops, and stroll on to the next place depending on your time table. The girls will be flirty and sometimes outright aggressive with ass grabbing and through the pants penis rubbing pretty common. I have gone to Orchard Towers just to have the pleasure of a girl rubbing my dick through my pants…without the intention of taking anyone home. I have also gone with the intention of taking someone home and not being able to choose from the packs of beautiful girls. I call that sensory overload and it’s only happened to me once. I thought my brain would explode! Avoid the places that require you sit at a table because it’ll be like a cattle call until you pick one, two or three women to sit with you. Then you’re stuck buying overpriced drinks for the ladies. The bars change constantly so it’s not worth mentioning any by name but it’s easy to hop from one to the next until you find your perfect woman to take home for a hour or an evening.

Speaking of perfect women… You will find some of the most gorgeous women on Earth at Orchard Towers. Don’t get me wrong, there are some real dogs here too but the classic Asian beauties are easy to pick out of the crowd. A word of advice: If you find a girl that takes your breath away, go for her right away. Even if it means leaving your current table mate to talk to the gorgeous one, do it. I have twice missed out on incredible beauties; once because it was so early in my quest and once because I was seated with a girl I didn’t want to offend. The real beautiful ones will also be noticed by other men and most will not return later. Some men have enough money to keep these beauties for the night. Speaking of money, the price can vary in Singapore but when I was last there it was about $100 USD for a couple hours of massage and sex. Try to talk them into 100 Sing Dollars. Prices may have changed since but with the right woman, it’s well worth the money.

Author’s Experience: One of the greatest experiences I’ve had in Singapore was with a beautiful Chinese girl. She was tall and slender with perfect breasts. She was dressed in a white sequined gown as if she had been to a formal ball at the ambassador’s home. When she removed that gown, she exposed her milky white skin and pale pink nipples. She gave me a nice light touch massage and when I rolled over she engulfed my penis with her full red lips. Her expert oral skills left me breathless as she slowly brought me to climax. I warned her that I was coming but she made no motion to take me out of her mouth. I came hard and long and she teased every bit out of me with her mouth and tongue working expertly. After, she left me in her mouth for a long, long time…teasing me so that my member would continue to spasm every once in awhile. I realized after about five minutes of this, that she had swallowed it all down as if this was the nectar she had been craving. I could have fallen in love with her right then and there and I wish that I had asked her to stay the night. Instead, I placed her in a cab and sent her on her way that night. Perhaps my all time favorite?

For more advice on Singapore, I recommend you visit www.worksexguide.com and www.sammyboytimes.com There is a lot of legal brothel activity in and about Geylang which I have never visited during the evening. Like I mentioned previously, there are also plenty of opportunities in bars, restaurants, and karaoke places. The karaoke places are pretty expensive as you’re going to pay for a room and the girls and the booze. If you’re with a big group, or even better on the company dime, this might be a good way to go. For the most part, the karaoke girls are available for dating. They may have some strict house rules so you may have to wait until the next day/night or until they are off work that night. Hope you’re recovered from your jet lag!

5 tips for successful Singapore mongering:

1) Scout out the Orchard Towers near the Orchard Hotel and down the street from the Thai Embassy.

2) When in the Towers, avoid overt eye contact until you are ready to pounce. Shop around for what you like and don’t’ be afraid to bar hop a bit. Remember that the girls won’t bar hop because they’ve paid a cover and are usually limited to one haunt per night.

3) Do some research ahead of time and check out what people are saying about Geylang area and other places on www.worldsexguide.com and www.sammyboytimes.com

4) Be polite and try to make friends with your hotel doormen. They usually turn a blind eye to your “dating” but can cause a problem…especially if you’ve been a arrogant ass throughout your stay.

5) Even though it’s a pain, walk your “date” down to the lobby and get her a cab. Don’t rely on the doormen to be nice to her without you there.

Bonus Materials

Author Posting from The World Sex Guide:

Great Freebie in Singapore

Thought I’d tell you about a great freebie I got in Singapore. The Orchard Towers is a great place to go and take it easy. I spent some time in Romeo Club but it’s pretty high pressure with a lot of lady boys. There was a little hottie there I would have taken home but she was gone when I returned. Her name was Beyonce. I also spent some time in another bar with two ladies that really wanted me to take them home. Good price and all but they were older and although I’m sure I would have been pleased, I passed.

By the way, if you spend any time around these girls they will be rubbing you through your pants and letting you rub them pretty much anywhere. So it’s never a dull time.

I went to another bar and hit on one of the beautiful Indian girls there. I don’t mean a working girl but this girl worked for the bar. I think she liked me because when she offered to bring me a girl, I just kept telling her I liked her. Sure she pried a few drinks out of me but at the end of her shift, she walked me to my hotel and fucked my brains out. She stayed the night and it was good.

I have to say, this NEVER happens to me so I was quite thrilled. I will find her next time I’m in town. Sorry to be vague about her but I don’t want you better looking guys jumping my gal ;-) when I’m gone.

Moral is: A little flattery will get you everywhere. Just remember, if you tell her you like her best, prove it by not molesting other chicks while she’s not looking. I talked to other girls which got her hackles up just enough but I did not grope. Great time was had by all!

by Rob Franks
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Joy and I went to see Jack Hanson perform at the Magic Castle in Hollywood, California one night in 2001. Something exciting happened on this night, and it was not a planned act of stage illusion.

The Magic Castle is a Victorian mansion and private club that houses the Academy of Magical Arts, where top notch stage magicians and illusionists perform. The mansion has three stories and a basement, with almost every inch of it is either decorated with memorabilia, or rigged to amuse and amaze club members and their guests. There are portrait paintings with eyes that follow you, a telephone booth where a skeleton appears in the glass, a table where your drinks revolve, and a piano played by a fake ghost named Irma.
The point about the Magic Castle is, the place is geared toward creating illusion, which is why I was so surprised by what happened to me after dinner.
Joy, Jack and I had dinner at the Magic Castle before Jack’s show. Jack had arranged for us to get VIP seating, which meant we needed to be in front of the Parlor stage door at a certain time. Since it was a good idea to use the restroom facilities beforehand, we timed ourselves with that in mind. Jack had already left to prepare for his show, when Joy and I left the dining room. The ladies restroom was at the bottom of the staircase on the same floor as the Parlor. Joy and I entered the small ladies room, which was only big enough for two stalls and two side-by-side sinks. There was no room for furniture, and only one narrow door in and out. The walls and stalls were covered with a collage of old time magazine ads. When we entered the ladies room and saw that both stalls were empty, we went in each to her own. Joy left first and said she would be right outside. I replied that I was right behind her. I heard Joy leave.
Moments after Joy left, I exited the stall and made a left turn for the sink to wash my hands. That’s when I nearly collided with a beautiful woman. I hadn’t heard her enter. She smiled, said hello and I realized at once that I was standing in a Magic Castle ladies room smiling at Sharon Stone. Really. The Sharon Stone."I love your dress,” she said. All I can remember stammering was, “Thank you.”
I opened the ladies room door to leave. Joy quickly approached me, pulled me over by the photograph of Houdini on the wall, and said with some excitement “Did you see who that was? Your favorite actress in the entire world!”
I smiled and said, “I sure did. If I wasn’t a woman…” I let it hang in midair as we both laughed at the irony of the situation. I have loved Sharon Stone for decades and when I finally get to meet her, I am also a woman. What a life!

Post by: Kathryn Cleve
Country: United States
My Blog: Longing to be a Woman