I sit and wonder a lot about life and love. Recently I find myself asking (due to the forever ongoing sex saga in my life) whether it is possible to love someone deeply yet not be attracted to them physically?

While I am told by my significant other that this is not the case. That he does find me attractive I have to wonder if this is true. Another possibility for the problem. If this is the case how do I find out? How come for the first time in 4 years I am tending to disbelieve him?

I hit an all new low today and something I’m not proud of. I opened his laptop and snooped today. For the first time ever I’m checking up on him. Why for an answer I guess. I guess what I don’t understand is if everything he is telling me is the truth then why isn’t he just going for it and seeing if something happens. You see when I talk to him I get a feeling that there’s something he’s holding back. What I have no clue. Do I have any proof to have these feelings no. He has never lied to me before (well that I have found him out on). God all I keep thinking is if I am starting to snoop then maybe it is the beginning of the end?

Asia

In this chapter, I’m going to leave out some obvious sex tourism countries and instead concentrate on a few business traveler destinations. A place like Thailand is a Mecca of sex activity but from what I hear, you shouldn’t need any help finding what you’re looking for there. So I’ll concentrate on some places where it’s a bit harder to find the fun providers. Hopefully this will help you in your quest for a little after work fun.

Singapore:

Singapore is one of those countries worth mentioning when it comes to finding hot women. Depending on where you’re last stopover is before Singapore, you should even be paying attention to the ladies on the airplane. Singapore apparently if pretty loose with their visas and you’ll find that the place is packed with hot young women from Thailand, the Philippines, Cambodia, China, etc. Therefore, if you’re coming from Hong Kong for example, there may be some working girls on your flight. Catch their eye and you might be able to arrange your date right there and then. Besides, the lighting on a plane or in an airport is pretty harsh. If she’s good looking, dressed down on an airplane, chances are she’ll be smoking hot dressed up and made up for an evening of drinking and dancing. Ok enough about airline romance…

The other thing to know about Singapore is that the people (read women) are aloof during the day. In other words, don’t be discouraged if you cannot make eye contact with any of the beautiful women walking down the streets during the day. Singapore is not a third world country and most of the women you see have jobs or they are well off and doing their shopping in Singapore’s ritzy designer shops. In other words, they are busy people and their time for fun is not during the daytime.

Street Action

At about dusk, if you’re walking around downtown, you will find that the atmosphere changes dramatically. Suddenly you’ve gone from “no one will look at me” to “be careful about making eye contact”. The streets have changed and the working girls are out. You will find it difficult but making eye contact, like you would in San Francisco (if you wanted a girl to know you were interested) can become an exercise in extracting yourself from an unintentional negotiation. I’ve never picked up a girl off the street in Singapore although I have had to extract myself from several conversations/negotiations.

Author’s Warning: Singapore is known for having many lady-boys. This is especially the case on the streets so unless you’re into that kind of thing, be careful. Also, don’t think you can automatically tell if a girl is (or was) actually a boy. Some are very beautiful and it takes a little closer examination to be sure. You’re best to avoid the street walkers in my humble opinion.

Hotel Bars

The real action in Singapore is in the hotel bars and karaoke bars. My first visit to Singapore was a pleasantly surprising one. I stayed in a very nice hotel in the middle of town (a top American chain hotel) and was stunned to find that the hotel bar was basically a brothel in the evening. My co-worker and I went downstairs to the bar (for a drink…really!) and were soon sitting with two very exotic, very sexy, ladies from Thailand. When I asked one of them, “What are you doing here?” she replied, “I think you know what I’m doing here.” Up until then, I thought I was doing really well with the ladies. Funny how the discussion of money changes that feeling huh? These girls usually travel groups and there’s usually one experienced girl that helps with language and negotiation stuff for the new and younger girls. In the case of my first evening in Singapore, I ended up with the newbie while my co-worker took the experienced girl up to his room. We both had great experiences and were out scouting for more experiences later that week. Of course, by the time I returned to Singapore, my hotel had cleaned up its act and the girls had moved on. If it’s a hotel bar you’re looking for, you’ll need to figure out which one is hot at the moment.

Hot to Spot a Lady-boy: If you want to avoid a “Crying Game” type scene in your hotel room, you should know how to spot a lady-boy. It’s sad but some of these lady-boys were marked for that existence at a very young age. That means that they may have had their penis removed and had hormone treatment since before puberty. Therefore, some are very hard to spot. My advice is if you suspect at all, just pass on that one and find another. There are many fish in the Singaporean sea my friend. The voice is one give away. If your girl has a froggy voice or seems to be putting on a falsetto, walk away. Hands are another sign. Petite Asian women do not have big masculine hands. Shake “her” hand and examine it. Does it look like Kina Kai’s or Jackie Chan’s? Don’t be fooled by lack of Adam’s apple or beautiful breasts. Surgery in Asia is very inexpensive by Western standards. Once again, you’re in a target rich environment…why settle? If you suspect a girl is actually a lady-boy, move on.

Orchard Towers

The place where you cannot go wrong in Singapore is the infamous Orchard Towers. Orchard Towers is well known so you shouldn’t have to know more than the name to get a cabbie to drop you there. In some business circles it’s known as “Four Floors of Whores”. It’s literally a four story building with (at any given time) between 6 and 12 bar/nightclubs. Apart from waitresses, just about every girl you see inside any of these bars is available for sex. Let me warn you now. It can be a bit high pressure and many of the girls would like nothing more than to entice you to a table so that they can stake claim to you for the night. My advice is to keep moving, keep eye contact to a minimum, and don’t get suckered into sitting down and buying a drink for someone until you’re ready. There’s no cover charge for men at these bars. The women pay for the privilege of being inside so feel free to stroll in, make a couple of loops, and stroll on to the next place depending on your time table. The girls will be flirty and sometimes outright aggressive with ass grabbing and through the pants penis rubbing pretty common. I have gone to Orchard Towers just to have the pleasure of a girl rubbing my dick through my pants…without the intention of taking anyone home. I have also gone with the intention of taking someone home and not being able to choose from the packs of beautiful girls. I call that sensory overload and it’s only happened to me once. I thought my brain would explode! Avoid the places that require you sit at a table because it’ll be like a cattle call until you pick one, two or three women to sit with you. Then you’re stuck buying overpriced drinks for the ladies. The bars change constantly so it’s not worth mentioning any by name but it’s easy to hop from one to the next until you find your perfect woman to take home for a hour or an evening.

Speaking of perfect women… You will find some of the most gorgeous women on Earth at Orchard Towers. Don’t get me wrong, there are some real dogs here too but the classic Asian beauties are easy to pick out of the crowd. A word of advice: If you find a girl that takes your breath away, go for her right away. Even if it means leaving your current table mate to talk to the gorgeous one, do it. I have twice missed out on incredible beauties; once because it was so early in my quest and once because I was seated with a girl I didn’t want to offend. The real beautiful ones will also be noticed by other men and most will not return later. Some men have enough money to keep these beauties for the night. Speaking of money, the price can vary in Singapore but when I was last there it was about $100 USD for a couple hours of massage and sex. Try to talk them into 100 Sing Dollars. Prices may have changed since but with the right woman, it’s well worth the money.

Author’s Experience: One of the greatest experiences I’ve had in Singapore was with a beautiful Chinese girl. She was tall and slender with perfect breasts. She was dressed in a white sequined gown as if she had been to a formal ball at the ambassador’s home. When she removed that gown, she exposed her milky white skin and pale pink nipples. She gave me a nice light touch massage and when I rolled over she engulfed my penis with her full red lips. Her expert oral skills left me breathless as she slowly brought me to climax. I warned her that I was coming but she made no motion to take me out of her mouth. I came hard and long and she teased every bit out of me with her mouth and tongue working expertly. After, she left me in her mouth for a long, long time…teasing me so that my member would continue to spasm every once in awhile. I realized after about five minutes of this, that she had swallowed it all down as if this was the nectar she had been craving. I could have fallen in love with her right then and there and I wish that I had asked her to stay the night. Instead, I placed her in a cab and sent her on her way that night. Perhaps my all time favorite?

For more advice on Singapore, I recommend you visit www.worksexguide.com and www.sammyboytimes.com There is a lot of legal brothel activity in and about Geylang which I have never visited during the evening. Like I mentioned previously, there are also plenty of opportunities in bars, restaurants, and karaoke places. The karaoke places are pretty expensive as you’re going to pay for a room and the girls and the booze. If you’re with a big group, or even better on the company dime, this might be a good way to go. For the most part, the karaoke girls are available for dating. They may have some strict house rules so you may have to wait until the next day/night or until they are off work that night. Hope you’re recovered from your jet lag!

5 tips for successful Singapore mongering:

1) Scout out the Orchard Towers near the Orchard Hotel and down the street from the Thai Embassy.

2) When in the Towers, avoid overt eye contact until you are ready to pounce. Shop around for what you like and don’t’ be afraid to bar hop a bit. Remember that the girls won’t bar hop because they’ve paid a cover and are usually limited to one haunt per night.

3) Do some research ahead of time and check out what people are saying about Geylang area and other places on www.worldsexguide.com and www.sammyboytimes.com

4) Be polite and try to make friends with your hotel doormen. They usually turn a blind eye to your “dating” but can cause a problem…especially if you’ve been a arrogant ass throughout your stay.

5) Even though it’s a pain, walk your “date” down to the lobby and get her a cab. Don’t rely on the doormen to be nice to her without you there.

Bonus Materials

Author Posting from The World Sex Guide:

Great Freebie in Singapore

Thought I’d tell you about a great freebie I got in Singapore. The Orchard Towers is a great place to go and take it easy. I spent some time in Romeo Club but it’s pretty high pressure with a lot of lady boys. There was a little hottie there I would have taken home but she was gone when I returned. Her name was Beyonce. I also spent some time in another bar with two ladies that really wanted me to take them home. Good price and all but they were older and although I’m sure I would have been pleased, I passed.

By the way, if you spend any time around these girls they will be rubbing you through your pants and letting you rub them pretty much anywhere. So it’s never a dull time.

I went to another bar and hit on one of the beautiful Indian girls there. I don’t mean a working girl but this girl worked for the bar. I think she liked me because when she offered to bring me a girl, I just kept telling her I liked her. Sure she pried a few drinks out of me but at the end of her shift, she walked me to my hotel and fucked my brains out. She stayed the night and it was good.

I have to say, this NEVER happens to me so I was quite thrilled. I will find her next time I’m in town. Sorry to be vague about her but I don’t want you better looking guys jumping my gal ;-) when I’m gone.

Moral is: A little flattery will get you everywhere. Just remember, if you tell her you like her best, prove it by not molesting other chicks while she’s not looking. I talked to other girls which got her hackles up just enough but I did not grope. Great time was had by all!

by Rob Franks
http://www.findsexanywhere.blogspot.com
http://findsexanywhere.wordpress.com

Hello everyone!

We are Esteban Sanchez from Costa Rica and Kistina Samsudin from Malaysia.

Both of us are “international students” from Saint Mary’s University, Halifax, Canada.

As international students, we know quite a number of different people from different countries, such as people from Japan, Lebanon, Sri Lanka, Korea, China, Hong Kong, Venezuela, Mexico, Germany, India, Lithuania, Ukraine, Thailand, Finland, Jordan, Turkey, Taiwan, etc.

We would like to share our experiences as international students throughout our degree with everyone around the world.

We hope that our experiences, regardless of whether or not it is a happy, sad or funny experience, get to enlighten everybody throughout their daily lives.

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Experiment Kids.

Sitting at airport waiting for the plane that has my man on to arrive even on a Wednesday the Airport is busy with a whole different range of people with different lifestyles.

I find my mind wondering to blackspots reply to my men and money post about the personal price being to high for him and wondering whether it is the same for most?

There’s a lady sitting in front of me with what I would assume is her son since he called her mum. She’s crying they just called his plane she’s hugs him tells him to be safe and he looks down at her, smiles and says he’ll be home soon and promises to stay safe. He’s on his way to army training she tells me as she apologizes for the scene.

She waits for him to board the plane then silent her tears fall and when he’s boarded she turns to me again and says I begged him not to enlist with the way the worlds going he’s bound to have to go to war one day.

She says goodbye to me and I sit silently thanking god I don’t have to deal with that. The plane leaves and I find myself praying to god knows who that he will be able to carry out his promise and come home safe!

Really puts my shit into prospective that’s for sure. How dare I be unhappy about my life at any point I do have it very easy. I look up and see my man walking through the doors and think thank god I only have this to deal with!

Sitting here now, writing this, it is hard to imagine that just 4 to 5 years ago, I lived in ignorance of something that can be so exquisite to experience, even though I was about 40 yrs old. And just as I was ignorant back then, the possibility exists that there are others out there who are as well. Ignorant of what, you may ask? To that I would answer, Female Ejaculation. Yes, you heard me right ~ Women can Ejaculate, in a similar way that Men can!!! And most Men seem to love it

I was still married back then, and thought that my sex life was good, until the day when something started happening to me that I hadn’t experienced before. At first, I was highly embarrassed, even though it was with my husband, and I thought that there must be something wrong with me. Why, all of a sudden, was I experiencing awesome, rolling Orgasms, but leaving behind a rather large wet patch in the process? Naturally, it wasn’t the kind of thing I felt comfortable talking to my Doctor about, so I used the next best thing - the Internet. It was then that I found out that I was ‘gushing’, as it is otherwise known, and that not only was it normal, but it was also something that a lot of Women do not even know about! Hence, this Post, so that you, Dear Reader, will not remain ignorant of such an incredible, exquisite, and cell-tingling experience.

After I realised that I was normal, and that this was okay, I started to relax more and go with it when it would happen, rather than try to fight it, as I had when I didn’t know what was happening. The more I gave in to it, the more incredible the Orgasms became, and the more varied they became also. I thought I had a good sex life, and after the gushing started, I thought it was a great one!

Sadly, there are many out there who do not believe that women ejaculate, and that if something does squirt out, it is Urine. But chemical analysis has shown that:

1. While it does contain several elements found in urine (creatine and urea) the level of these elements are so low that it cannot be considered urine;

2. The fluid contains glucose and fructose - two forms of sugar!

3. The fluid contains PSA (prostate specific antigen) a chemical believed to be produced only in males. PSA is produced by the prostate gland, and until now it was believed that women did not have prostate glands.

While the chemical analysis has revealed some important information about the fluid itself, science still has more questions than answers about this amazing female process.

It remains unclear where the fluid is produced. Research is suggesting that it comes from the Skene’s glands, which are or aren’t connected to the g-spot, which is now also believed to be the female prostate.

Source

So, I think I can safely assume that I haven’t just been urinating during sex

If you haven’t had the amazing experience of ‘gushing’ personally, or you haven’t been with a woman who did so, then I encourage you to educate yourself on the subject, learn tips and techniques for achieving it, and a good place to start would be at the Squirting Truth website, as it is informative without being pornographic.

Since I first began gushing, my husband and I separated, and I now have a new man in my life. I thought I had it great with my ex, but WOW! I hadn’t realised that there was much more to come (excuse the pun).

But that, Dear Reader, is another story……….

Ok so they turned up in a brown paper envelope with the word “toy” written on it. Waiting as long as I have I ripped open the envelope and was amazed at how big they were! I thought quietly to myself, maybe there was a size guide on the page I didn’t see and they just sent me XL. Went to Wild Secrets website and nope, this is the one and only size! I put them on the shelf and every time I walked past them thought “surely not, no way are they going to fit!” I was sure the only way they would was if I was really turned on so, with the help of my partner, I tried them.

For such big balls they did fit! For the next few hours I walked around with the Duo Balls in. Every movement I made the inner balls moved and I felt the sensation. I was very aware that every time they moved I would tense my vaginal muscles…giving me an intense pleasurable feeling.

I will say here I kept asking my partner if he could hear the noise when the balls moved as I was a little paranoid considering the noise they made out of the packet. He said he couldn’t. Once I was convinced I started to become more comfortable with them and really started to enjoy the feeling of the balls moving around inside me. I was certainly getting very turned on!

These balls will not only give you thrills as you wear them but will also strengthen your vaginal muscles which will enable you to have bigger and better orgasms. I do like this product. I enjoy the feeling of being turned on and so I can’t wait to go out to dinner on the weekend and try them out in public!

Sex Toy Review by: Nikki
Country: New Plymouth, NZ
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