An interesting revelation. Lately I have been enjoying the new CDM Male Escorts Forum. Over here I am potentially the consumer! After so many years of Forum involvement where consumers were the others…this is an entirely different dynamic.

Now, one of my revelations some years ago was about Male Escorts. I’ve said often enough I’d happily pay for it…in fact, I look forward to the time when I fully intend to regularly. I’ve always clearly remembered one of my clients mentioning the particular thrill he gets going through catalogs of hot woman…all available to him! I hadn’t considered this element of being a consumer before and GAWD, absolutely! I have reconciled to the fact that I’d pretty much want to try them all!

I wouldn’t be looking for longer term, more intimate engagements. There is little chance I’d want to “hang out” and get to know each other. This is, of course, in DIRECT CONTRAST to how I promote myself as an Escort and in DIRECT CONTRAST with the type of gent I prefer to see. I feel like a hypocrite.

Anyway, the Forum. CDM is international and Elite. Very nice but…much of the conversation revolves around fine dining, conversation and romantic getaways, which is also nice but…what about jolly good rogerings?!

I’m exaggerating now because rogering wouldn’t be on my priorities list but, I find myself in exactly the position of many a consumer on our various New Zealand forums over the years arguing for the “quickie". Poetry and candlelight not required thank you. (I haven’t quite got to arguing but…)

THEN it occurs to me that, like myself on some degree, maybe the Male Escorts on CDM are potentially offended at the idea that a woman might book him for little more than the talents of his tongue and penis!? What a revelation! More importantly, WHY is this a revelation? Why did I put these men in a category so different to the one in which I place myself? Yes, offended is exaggerating but…hopefully you know what I mean?

So, question, if you were a (Male?) Escort would it bother you if clients were interested in nothing more than your meat? Have also asked this over on Our Forum.