Really sorry people but I have to cancel my Wellington Trip.

Wont make it to Wellington until October now

…which I’d like feedback on before I make the announcement .

This will be long winded so please bare with me. I have a change in services coming, intended launch mid-next month, and I want reactions. My specific questions to you are at the bottom. Please don’t respond if you don’t read all of this…you will miss important bits!

I didn’t want to make any public mention of my coming changes before launch but, the more I’ve thought about it the more I suspect I’m going to find it hard to explain. I feel I need to know how it is (honestly) received by the reader before I get there.

One vital point before I continue. I’ve been in this business over 4 years now. Ever since the early days I’ve looked forward to the time when I could do my work exactly as I choose. This would happen when a) I no longer relied on / cared about the income, b) the base I had established was reasonably solid and c) I had the confidence to say it out loud.

I’m there!! And its f***ing exciting!

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Last night I found a good video talking about achieving the all elusive Male Multiple Orgasm and posted it on Escorts Forum. CGs reply got me thinking…we need to find someone who really wants to give this a go who would be willing to share their experience of it. Then I expanded on this thought and have now posted the below request into our Trade and Exchange board. I would love to hear from anyone interested.

Male Multiples have always fascinated me but I’ve never yet had opportunity to “work with someone” on it and I would like to. I would also like for the “findings” to be publishable. Honest, diary type account of how it went (or didnt).

And I dont just want to read about it, I’d like to be involved. Is anyone here interested in taking very seriously an attempt at achieving Male Multiples for himself, letting me along for the ride and you documenting it. I realise this is a big ask and offer is open indefinitely. I dont expect any hands to go up in any hurry.

One condition is that you are single. No money will exchange hands but you will presumably be based in Auckland and will need to have somewhere for us to meet because I dont.

We would need to be sure we are very comfortable with each other. Meet / talk / spend time first obviously. Platonic is fine. The exercises mentioned in the video are daily and will require real commitment from you. Hopefully you’d also properly read up on the subject prior. I suppose I expect you and I getting together once a week (? big question mark) would be enough that I could “follow progress” so to speak and would be available to you to “use” ( you know what I mean) as you wish. Yes; sex, my hands, fingers, tongue, elbows…whatever you need from me.

In ensuing discussion I have added that I expect getting together weekly (?) would be for a good 12-24 hours. I realise just working with one person will only cover so many bases but it would be a great start. Ultimately I want to learn how to help men achieve this.

Yes, yes we are! World first right here in New Zealand. I was going to wait until we had some bods up there before making this official announcement but I’m too excited about it (and notoriously impatient). The boys are working on their profiles as we speak! This is no small deal, some explanation from the website:

Among our discussions on Escorts Forum we’ve often debated how our Punters would feel were roles reversed. What would they charge? How would they advertise? Could they do it full-stop? All of the men (and woman?) offering you their services on this website are well known members of our Escorts Forum community and are putting themselves on the line in the name of “living a little"! We applaud them! Their date with you could well be their FIRST (and no more than their fifth). They will make every effort to give you a GREAT time!

Willis, the pink dude with the brows, is our hot mascot and we think he’s wonderful. If anyone actually does this I will be immensly impressed. It is going to take balls (), particularly given that some who are considering it were also the guys who said they couldn’t in one of our previous threads. This is open to men and woman of any orientation, though given the complete lack of female punters involved in EF I’m expecting a male dominated gallery . Where are you ladies?! We’re going to have a ball .

I have just come across a good article on Spectator.co.uk. where the question “Its wrong to pay for sex” was debated. What would interest me is how votes would stand if the same debate focussed on male escorts. I realise their industry is in the minority but it does exist, they just don’t feature in discussion. Another double standard most likely. PET HATE of mine. Not that the debate went badly. Votes were taken before and after with the motion soundly defeated. As is only right.

Before the debate
For: 134
Against: 341
Don’t Know: 221

After the debate
For: 203
Against: 449
Don’t Know: 45

What I wanted to draw attention to more than the debate was this comment below from a reader. So very true. I admit there is some difference between using your body to sell sex versus stacking factory shelves. Namely the fact that when your body is being used for sex, someone is entering it. This entering of the body is, I believe, the defining difference between the sexual experience and vulnerability of men versus woman. Sorry, getting off track. His primary point…prostitutes sell sex, their body remains their own.

Many comments seem to suggest that prostitutes sell their bodies. That’s not true. Prostitutes sell sex - which is much less than bodies, children, kidneys, and souls. Their body remains their own; they sell sexual labour. That doesn’t necessarily alienate them from their bodies, selves or souls.

And what is so wrong with selling sex? Why is it okay to use your body to dig wells, stack shelves, do factory work…anything except selling sex?

Millions of workers sell their labour in various forms today to make a living; some of us use our brains - isn’t that a form of intellectual labour?

I’d like to introduce Bailey, Male Escort now available to woman in Tauranga (and whereever else in New Zealand she may be). His new website was launched last night and we’re really happy with it. Has been awhile in the coming so a thrill to finally happen. His Photos were taken down at Mission bay (with a few at Friend Voyagers place ). Voyagers bedroom enjoyed having a hot naked man to look at…albiet briefly .

I expect Bailey to make some waves. His blog was kicked off last week and he’s raring to go! I really wish him luck though I really don’t expect he’ll need it. Has been a treat to work with someone so enthusiastic. Thanks Bailey.