• Occupation: Adventurer
• Occupation: Voyeur (of life)
• Occupation: Retired punter
• Starsign: Virgo
• Age: 51 going on 40 something

Comfortable in my own skin as I am against others’. Intense, opinionated, absolute Virgo & especially Fire Monkey. Philosophy of how do you know if you like/dislike something if you haven’t tried it at least once & believer in the process of separating fantasy from reality through careful tasting of the boundaries of your supposed limits.

Why am I here - because a number of very special people in the sex industry have been one or more off the most important categories in my life - friend (I have no more than five true friends), muse, lover or generally wicked influence in my life. More recently Sally has been the one I can argue with, share the journey intellectually & emotionally.

I’ve tasted many things vanilla & beyond as part of the adventure/journey of life, this blog was created after a not so gentle nudge from Sally to share some of the stories hidden under the bed along with the opinions I’m never short of.

What do I want from it - establish contact with people who will argue, laugh, debate & share the journey with me. Bring it on folks !