Voyager’s philosophy of life trite saying of the day - choose between fantasy and reality with caution !

One of the things I’ve learned on the journey to my current temporary resting place is the need to think through fantasy versus reality. By that I mean learning to know the difference between things that work in reality compared to belonging in the “great fantasy” file, something to get off on when masturbating or day dreaming but in reality they don’t work for me.

My philosophy is that there’s only one way to find out which pile things belong in - yes folks the Voyager taste test ! So many get caught up in the fantasy world woven on the internet & other forms of media with no idea of what is like in reality & I’ve witnessed the shocked look on people’s faces when they try things & find that the reality does not match their fantasy.

In my case I’ve explored many sensations, situations and acts of sex, sensuality & downright raunchy fun. A few I’ve had to try a few times to see if some form of variation works better, some simply don’t work for me. To this day there are a few that are locked away in the vault that even my closest confidants don’t get to see inside, yes even I can embarrass myself at times.

And for those who have read my ramblings on here I’m not focussing on the BDSM aspects of my explorations. There are as many things I’ve tried in a (relatively) normal sexual situation that don’t work for me in reality yet I’ll still fantasise & get off on them when alone & letting my imagination drift.

There’s no right or wrong nor do I think everyone should try the full menu. Yes I sense a little arrogance when I say that not everyone can handle the emotional let alone physical shock of a fantasy that turns out to be traumatic in reality but for me sex & sensuality starts & ends (mostly) in my mind, it is not a simple act of gratification so the damage done remains & needs to be dealt with to stop it festering & spreading.

The best bit for me is that I’ve barely scratched the surface of some things I want to try, equally I have many I want to explore further when I encounter the right situation and fellow adventurers - some of those are at the core of me figuring out what really drives me but I’ve yet to encounter or create the situation to explore in depth.

So, if you’ve lasted this long though this burble be brave, give it a go, the worst that can happen in most situations is that you walk away giggling hysterically & hoping none of your friends find out what you’ve done. And if it is games of a harsher set of consequences that you’re tasting read the warning signs - there are consequences for all concerned.